Dads

The definition of the word dad is a man with relation to his child or children. All I can say is that the word ‘Dad’ can be the most undefined word in the world. In general, we feel that dads are the ones working all day long to give us a better future, but don’t they do just more than that? The role of a dad is underrated from the beginning, and we only understand his importance as time goes on. Dads are often the most underappreciated parental figure.

The definition of a dad seems considerably ordinary, but the kind of people dads are, the word extraordinary seems to be the most suited of all. Dads are the ones who play a significant role in our lives in several ways: mentally, emotionally and monetarily. Honouring these creatures can be the least thing we can do, keeping in mind how much they’ve done for us throughout our lives.

We pay off many debts in our respective lives, but what if we were to pay a debt to our very own fathers? I surely bet you that we will definitely go bankrupt as there are a million things that this man has done for you. It’s completely unconditional and non-beneficial. It’s all the love and care of the man, which he showers in many ways.

From the beginning of our lives, we’re traditionally somehow very connected to our moms. Most of the day is spent with mothers, while we do not realise how hard our dad is working in the day. There is complete support from your dad’s side, regardless of what will happen. If you want to invest in some business, your dad will have your back. No matter how bad the situation is, that man will always be there with you. He’s an amazing, best friend who we never give credit to.

The hard working man provides his family everything possible, and the best. But being selfish isn’t the best way ahead in life. Most of us are not content with what we have, and only grumble about not having something, instead of focusing on what we have. We can give him back by talking and appreciating him, that’s all. Expensive gifts and cards ain’t gonna pay back what he has done for you. People claim that they understand their dads, but as long as you’re not talking to him, you don’t know what he is. We must’ve seen several smiles on his face each day, but the pressure and anxiety is never seen. They somehow manage to keep their professional life away from personal life, not allowing their loved ones to worry at all.

The shield of protection is all over us when we’re with our dad. We know that parents protect their children no matter whatsoever, but when you have a dad, there’s an extra layer of protection. I recently watched a movie (can’t say the name, copyright) and the hero had taken an oath to protect his family, regardless of what happens. He must’ve already understood that it was his battle to lose, but he gave his best despite everything being against him, and protected his family. All this seems like fiction, but almost every dad in the world protects his family, and a family is everything for them. They spend hours working each day, only for their family.

So, there are different kinds of people in the world; so of course, there will be different kinds of Dads too.

● Firstly, there are the overprotective ones. They overprotect their children in normal situations. Dads should be protective, but the overprotective ones are kind of annoying, not only to other people but also their kids. I know they love their kids so much that it is natural for them to be so protective towards them.

● THE STRICT ONES- These are the traditional, old-fashioned Dads, with a mustache. In olden times (nowadays also), most Dads were very strict with their kids. It was good because the kids were way more ethical and respectful than our generation. I am sure that these kinds of Dads still exist.

● THE COOL ONES- These are the kinds of Dads everyone loves. A very cool person who doesn’t have a problem with anything anyone does. They are rarely angry and always as cool as ice; they love spending time with their kids (every dad does) and they are the kind of people you find very often. There are jokes all over, and they’re funny ones too.

● THE ONES WHO SPOIL THEIR KIDS – These are the least liked Dads by people, not their kids. People don’t like these kinds of DADS because they spoil their children. The rich DADS mostly fall into this category because they are the ones who spoil their kids. The kids, on the other hand, love their DADS more than anything, because DADS allow their kids to do anything they want, buy anything they want and so many more things the kids like. What kid will not love a father like that?

A dad is a mentor or guru for us. He can be a father-figure who guides us through difficult phases, and celebrates the best times with us. You can find a dad in your coach, teacher or even a friend, as long as he guides you on the right path. A dad doesn’t know how to do things in the beginning, but as time moves on, they understand and become the pro in our lives. They always have self-belief in us, backing us to do what we love. We take up different qualities from our dads, but us taking the quality of being a dad/person like him, is very rare. The sacrifices, struggles and whatnot? Dads are the ones who have definitely gone through everything in life, but as always, we never understood it. Every hour, every minute or every second should be dedicated to Dads. Though they have a different job compared to moms, we cannot count them out. Until next time stay safe, healthy and wear a mask.

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!

Adios.